I find, or should say, have found [and just recently... maybe the last couple years-tops], a real beauty to using something until it drops. Dead.
The culture we live in and among, a culture of disposable this and that... it gets hard to find a place inside yourself, or to impart to children, a real sense of purchasing something -after much thought & reflection- and then finding yourself really pleased, really satisfied with it:
and Using It.
And then,
being really happy/satisfied with It.
For instance:
I get this one all the time, "Wow, look how much you ride, and you only own one bike??" Or, "Geez, with all the riding you do... all the progress you've made... you deserve like 5 bikes, at least!!".
Yet, I only own one. I am satisfied you see. And happy too.
Now let me be perfectly clear and honest here too. I yearn [read: lust] for nearly as much, and probably more, new stuff as, or than, anyone. But a few things kick in at that point:
A. I look at our bank account [3 person family, single income, living in America ain't cheap, etc].
B. Even if a purchase is cleared through the First National Bank Of Wife... I usually rationalize that what I have isn't worth giving up on in the face of "Potential New Purchase/Replacement".
C. If A and B don't apply... I then go through a kind of self-imposed Hell of laundry-listing all the reasons I would really need this new item. Amy loves this about me [I suppose because she knows I'll put the kibosh on 99.2% of all purchases I seriously consider].
I/We am/are a big business, corporate business, small business, mom & pop business nightmare.
Here's what wouldn't survive if they depended on us as a family or as individuals:
1. All fast food joints.
2. All restaurants [we haven't eaten out in 2.5 years].
3. All new & used car dealers.
4. All brick-n-mortar video stores.
5. Walmart [never been in one].
6. Nearly all mega Big-Box stores [Chloe and Amy do frequent Target for laundry things and toy perusing].
Here's what is surviving because of us:
1. Grocery stores and Co-Ops.
2. Caffe Shops.
3. Netflix [which I've heard is owned by Walmart].
4. The occasional and very long-suffering LBS [but if any of them waited around for us... I suspect they'd go belly up, fast].
5. Various utilities [Comcast, our energy company [whose name I don't recall], our Landlords [who are great folks], ATT [who probably aren't great folks-at least at the very top, but maybe are], the city of Minneapolis for trash, water and such].
6. Local, State and Federal Govt.
7. The local Volvo guy... who, again, if he bet his paycheck on us, wouldn't be eating very well... or much [we don't drive the car enough to get lots of repairs].
I don't know, maybe I'm just jealous... I see all these new things, being purchased by good people and I think, "Man... they must use their stuff more than me, cause they are buying way more of this & that than me". Or maybe it's just,
"Man, I wish I could buy that kinda stuff too. I'd sure love using that thing up!". Which, of course, would be a problem...
...because I'd be too busy using it to be buying more stuff.
Keep Ridin'... Always
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